A client of mine today was not sure what action to take regarding a new offer to their clients.
In our coaching, they had told me that one of the ideas that most impacted them through the 2 years of working together was "being unstoppable," which was a way of being they really wanted to cultivate.
Other modes we have seen together were the controller and the reasonable voice.
Instead of answering their questions, I asked them to connect to the 3 different modes and listen to how they would decide and what they would say.
I asked which of these voices they wanted to listen to the most.
Which made their body open and expand, which closed it? This is often an indication of fear-driven decisions...
At the end, they got to their actions, what they would do next, and who they wanted to be (embody) in the future.
Our imagination can be used to worry or to be creative and look at a problem from many different directions.
At the end, they said, "I will use these 3 characters in the future to make decisions. Thank you!"
The art of being human.